Why blogs and blogging will ruin your self-discipline.

It all started with an innocent tongue in cheek remark by Rory. I know he didn’t mean anything by it although he did know I had been struggling with staying on track in my quest for real self-discipline. Then it was accentuated by Mark when he made this comment:

Maybe it was just a trick. To ruin your productivity!

He was of course referring to his thought about having only one decent sized goal everyday. But then the paranoia started to set in.

Was I starting to get sidetracked?

successI mean really… what does it take to successfully run a blog? I now have a regular routine of checking out the important blogs. Or at least those that I deem important. Thanks to this little firefox hint, I can now have all these blogs loaded in my browser window at one time.

And then there is the actual reading of blogs. There is just sooo much great content out there. As a newbie blogger I want to know how to avoid all the mistakes that others have made. I want to find my feet in blogging and then how do I get the word out about my blog? Which will then require that I keep in mind what my readers want.

Of course once I start reading the blogs it’s only proper etiquette to comment once in a while. You know, make a contribution to the blogging community. But then I have to check back, refresh my browser window because I know the host of said blog will politely reply or at least acknowledge my comment. We might even start a conversation. I can also get involved in charitable and philanthropic causes.

Do I really need to check my feedburner stats seven times a day to see if one more person has subscribed or visited my blog?

Does technorati change their ratings throughout the day? They don’t seem to and I’ve checked them six times today.

I think I forgot something. Oh that’s right I need to write a quality post that someone might be interested in. Done!!

After all of that I have managed to complete exactly one (that’s right, one) item on my todo list for the day. It wasn’t the most important item or the highest priority.

Here’s the problem, once I enter the blogosphere something happens. I get disoriented and undisciplined. I lose my focus.

But boy did I have fun today! And I’m getting to know some really great people. That’s got to count for something. :lol:

How do blogging and blogs affect your ability to get things done? Tell me in the comments.

55 comments.

  1. Sadly, this describes me to a T.
    Nice post btw ;)

  2. This is a great post, Dave. Really…linky :smile:

    Like Maclintok, it does sum up my situation, too. Well, it all ends tomorrow! (As if.)

  3. Rory, Just trying to keep up with all the great stuff you keep posting on your site. :cool:

  4. Maclintok, thanks. I wish it wasn’t me, but tomorrow’s another day. Actually it’s almost tomorrow now and I’m still checking out blogs. :shock:

  5. This post is kinda funny. Btw, here is a tip, don’t check feedburner seven times a day, it only updates once a day to give you your previous days subscriber count :smile:

  6. But Alex… the visitor count just went up by one :shock:

  7. :wink: Dave, you’re off to a great start with your blog. All the best. Since you stopped by to visit mine, I came by to see what your focus is. I’ll be back now and again.

  8. Robyn, thanks for stopping in. I would have replied sooner but for some reason Akismet flagged your comment as spam and I just caught it now. I hope you find something worthwhile stopping in for.

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  37. Dave – I understand completely how you feel entering the blogosphere, getting disoriented and unproductive. It happened to me at the outset as well – still does from time to time – but eventually, if you stick with it, focus on great content and connecting with people, you’ll get into the Blogger Mindset.

    The time you spend surfing, reading, commenting and thinking about blogging won’t feel unproductive any longer, or disorienting – it will become much more natural, and you’ll start thinking about how integrated blogging is as part of your daily activity and your success overall. It’s an interesting shift, and it will happen…

  38. Ben, I appreciate the comment, especially coming from you. I’m hoping it becomes ‘integrated’ soon because if it doesn’t I’ll be looking for a new job… :grin:

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  43. Great tip! It’s something I have been struggling with lately. Where does the time go?

    I think in this world of information overload, it’s especially hard to not get caught up in it when you are a blogger.

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  46. Hoo boy! Looks like a lot of people are in this same boat. Count me in, too. I just started blogging this week. Just started reading blogs. Just started commenting. And already I’ve guest blogged for someone and have another two posts on the way! Whoa!

    The thing I get lost in is people link to 10 different items in a single post (and you can never read just one post) that I want to read and then those link and link and, and… before I know it, I don’t even know how I got to where I am or why it’s 3 hours past lunch when I started reading when I got in. And I do think networking counts for something, especially when you are reading blogs that relate to the industry you work in. There’s a lot of knowledge and learning from others’ experiences that goes on, and that’s important, too.

    I don’t even want to know what will happen to me (or my work) if I ever start my own blog!

  47. LaurenMarie… now you know why I had to take a few days off just to realign my priorities. It’s not just the networking though… it’s all the great people you get to know. :smile:

  48. Oh, I didn’t mean networking to be for only business related gain. I meant meeting new people and enjoying the conversations with them, too! The thing I really like about becoming part of a blog network (network meaning the people who seem to congregate in certain circles and interact with the same blogs, like you, InspirationBit, Graphic Design Blog, Ronalfy, Randa Clay, Simmone, Dawude, etc), is that I feel like part of a community. We are drawn to blogs on topics we enjoy and we find people very similar to ourselves there, too, drawn by the same or similar things. It’s neat!

  49. LaurenMarie… you got it! That’s what I love about this place. :smile:

  50. As much as I don’t want to admit it, this article is just so true! Ever since I started blogging my day job peformance is really taking a toll. Sometimes I think it is almost like an addiciton :)

  51. Cin77… Thanks for stopping by. Just keep at it and you’ll get some balance. And you will be glad you did :smile:

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